Did I swallow the red pill, or am I still reasonable?

[The “red pill” and its opposite, the “blue pill” are popular cultural ideas – metaphors that represent the choice between knowledge, freedom, and the brutal truths of reality (red pill), and the safety, happiness, and ignorance of illusion (blue pill).]

MONDAY, 18 JUNE 2018

I understand why people, especially young men, want to migrate across the Mediterranean Sea to Europe.

I also understand why many European people see mass migration as an attack on their way of living, welfare, language, and culture – and why they are pushing back.

TUESDAY, 17 JULY 2018

(Inspired by the article “Devastation and Denial: Cambodia and the Academic Left”.)

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A particular political group claims something is happening. Just because you are opposed to this group’s politics is not to say that that particular event is not happening.

One example: Conservative, pro-free market, pro-capitalism politicians, especially those in positions of power, took every opportunity during the Cold War (1945-1990) to argue that communism was an evil doctrine. (They also had the habit of ignoring injustices perpetrated by their own side.) In 1975-1979 they spoke of hundreds of thousands of people who had been killed and who were dying of hunger and inhumane treatment at the hands of the radical communist Khmer Rouge in Cambodia. Many of their political opponents on the left ignored them, with tragic consequences. These people had clung to their own ideological positions instead of critically looking at reports about what was going on in Cambodia. One gets the idea that eyewitness reports were inconvenient for them, and instead of doing their own research they decided to reject and even criticise the reports.

(2)

Just because you can point to one case where someone whom you oppose politically was disastrously wrong is not to say they are wrong on other positions they take.

An example: Malcolm Caldwell, a British Marxist, was critical of American imperialism and the foreign policy of other Western powers in the 1960s and 1970s. He was also an energetic supporter of the Khmer Rouge – until he was killed in his hotel room in the Cambodian capital, Phnom Penh, in 1978. The fact that he was wrong about the Khmer Rouge does, however, not mean he was wrong in his criticism of American actions and policies, and those of other Western powers in those decades.

SUNDAY, 22 JULY 2018

00:40

I watched a conversation on TV this morning with a woman who advocated the term “theybies” instead of babies. The idea is to not program the young child with any gender before the child has had an opportunity to choose their own gender. (According to nbcnews.com: “to shield them from gender stereotypes”).

So, I thought: Why stop at gender? It’s just one of many factors that ultimately determines who and what you are and how you think of yourself. Why speak English to the child? Why not expose the child to a dozen languages in equal measure, and give the child a chance to choose their own language? Same with culture. The American parents of a young child should never mention baseball and hot dogs and Independence Day or any other aspect of American culture in those first few years of a child’s development. What if the child wants to be culturally Portuguese, or Russian or Taiwanese? Then those parents would have caused the child irreparable damage programming him/her/X with a culture not of the child’s own choosing. The same goes with socioeconomic elements of their upbringing. How dare the parents expose the child only to middle-class culture? Should the child not be equally exposed to at least also working-class culture and artistic-bohemian? And if the child is primarily exposed to artistic-bohemian culture, how dare those parents? What if the child ultimately realises that he/she/X is petite bourgeois?

11:20

Most citizens of a country are keen to welcome new immigrants with talents and outstanding abilities.

Most citizens of a country are keen to welcome new immigrants with positive characteristics.

Most citizens of a country are keen to welcome new immigrants who are tolerant and open-minded.

Most citizens of a country are keen to welcome new immigrants who will contribute something to their community.

What people do not want is more garbage in the street. (The nation’s own citizens already create enough litter.)

What people do not want is more criminals. (There are already enough criminals among their fellow citizens.)

What people do not want is intolerance. (There is already enough intolerance among their own country folk.)

What people do not want are more gangs of young men angry with people they hold responsible for their own misery. (There are already enough gangs of nihilistic young citizens who destroy communities.)

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Us South African English teachers in Taiwan are like Mexicans, and other Central American people who want to go to the US in search of a better life, and Taiwan is our America. We arrive here with a tourist visa, knowing that we are going to look for work, and if we get a job, that we might settle down here. We also hope for a “green card” (APRC plus personal work permit) that will allow us to live and work here permanently.

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Advice for the 25-year-old foreigner who plans to teach English in Taiwan for the next thirty years

THURSDAY, 12 JULY 2018

You burn up a lot of energy and desire to do things with the type of English teaching we do. For example, for my evening classes I leave at 17:00, and I’m back home at 22:30. The work is not difficult and not physically demanding, but you spend time travelling with a bookbag over your shoulder, pedalling your bicycle, climbing stairs, sweating in the sun, getting soaked in the rain. All of these things either burn energy, or your desire to do other things after you get home, or both.

People who have regular 9-5 jobs also burn up just as much, and even more energy. But – these people with full-time jobs, how much do they contribute to paid holidays when they burn up energy and desire to do other things? How much do they contribute to a pension fund that will keep them alive in twenty or thirty years’ time?

FRIDAY, 13 JULY 2018

The questions that the long-term English teacher in Taiwan should ask him or herself:

“What did I do today to make up for the fact that I do not get paid holidays? What did I do today to make up for the fact that I do not pay into a pension fund?”

(Same applies to anyone who does part-time work with no fringe benefits.)

MONDAY, 16 JULY 2018

You know how there are some people in modern, industrialised societies that simply don’t “make” it? The homeless people sleeping on a park bench or on the sidewalk on a piece of cardboard late in the afternoon or early evening when office workers are on their way home? Who try to rustle up some leftovers from a trash can?

Two things saved me from such a life: 1) I had no appetite for hard liquor and drugs – strong contributing factors for especially young men who end up on the street. 2) I could get a job teaching English in Korea, and then in Taiwan. (Would I really have ended up on the street without the latter option? I would have skated on thin ice, probably for years. Maybe I would never have fallen through, but I definitely would have been on thin ice for years.)

WEDNESDAY, 18 JULY 2018

Energy is the key. Without energy you can’t work. Without energy, you can’t do anything extra when you come home after the work that pays your rent and buys your food. Without energy, you can’t put up any resistance against thoughts or people or incidents or events that undermine your morale.

How do you get energy?

You start by thinking correctly. Then: Get enough sleep, eat the right food, and do regular exercise.

TUESDAY, 20 MARCH 2018

Suppose you are 25 years old, you’ve just arrived in Taiwan, and you are ready to start your career as an English teacher. Other people may see it as just part-time work you do after you graduate from university, before you start your “real life” as an adult, but you see it as a serious occupation – the answer to the question of how you’re going to prepare for your eventual retirement.

The problem is that, the way most foreign teachers do it in Taiwan, it’s a part-time job, with no benefits. You don’t make contributions to a pension fund. You probably won’t get a fixed salary. You don’t get paid holidays, and you won’t receive a bonus at the end of the year. One way you can provide for your retirement is to save money.

How much money do you need to save?

Let’s say NT$75,000 [USD2500] per month is enough for a good retirement (if you had to retire today). You can rent a good home or apartment (if you don’t own the property), afford decent health care, eat well, and take one or two trips per year. Considering that it is estimated that you must save at least 200 times your monthly income before you can retire (if you retire at the age of 60) you need to save approximately NT$15 million [USD500,000].

How long will it take our young adult to save that kind of money, working as an English teacher in a place like Taiwan?

Part-time work means you can only hope for eleven full months of income a year if you take compulsory holidays like Chinese New Year, and even so-called typhoon days into account. As you probably have family in the West you’ll want to visit once a year, you will need to budget at least one month’s savings for that. Those few weeks you go on vacation will also have to be subtracted from the number of months a year you earn money. Let’s say you can save a fixed amount of money for your retirement for ten months each year. Let’s go on and assume that you can put away as much as NT$30,000 a month (which is more than the average office worker earns in a full-time position in Taiwan).

How long will it take you to reach NT$15 million when you save at a rate of NT$300,000 a year?

The answer is a somewhat shocking fifty years. If you invest your savings and get at least 3% per year and never use any of the capital, it will still take you more than thirty years to save enough money.

To spend fifty years teaching English classes week in, week out, month in and month out, is in my opinion … let’s just say a unique challenge. To do it for thirty years would still require extraordinary endurance, a particularly thick skin, and a great deal of luck – to keep your flow of part-time work going month in and month out, year after year.

Is there a better solution?

My advice would be a schedule of 20-25 hours a week, ten months a year. Keep your expenses low. Live a simple life. When traveling, don’t be extravagant. In the three to five extra hours that ordinary salary-earners spend “at work”, you need to learn skills and gain knowledge that you can use to make more money. Any extra money must be kept aside to invest in projects that you will embark on when you have gained enough knowledge and you have sufficient confidence in your skills.

MONDAY, 19 NOVEMBER 2018

What kind of skills and knowledge should you acquire if you wish to make more money?

In Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, T. Harv Eker advises the reader to focus on the following four factors to improve his or her net worth: increase your income, save more money, increase the dividend you earn from your investments, and reduce your living costs by simplifying your lifestyle.

One of the books I read this year (I thought I knew which one but couldn’t find the text) suggested the following areas where you should at least master the basic skills to increase your income and your net worth: You need to learn how to advertise a product and/or service; you need to learn how to effectively manage people who work for you; you need to learn how to invest your money; you need to learn how to sell and do marketing.

And in How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Scott Adams shares his list of skills in which every adult needs to develop basic competency: Public speaking, Psychology, Business writing, Accounting, Design (just the basics), Conversation, Overcoming shyness, Second language, Golf, Proper grammar, Persuasion, Technology (hobby level is sufficient), and Proper voice technique.

Take all this advice into account and you will at least be able to lay the foundation for a good retirement after twenty or thirty years as an English teacher in Taiwan – or after a few decades in any other freelance or part-time job situation.

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Happiness is a requirement

TUESDAY, 29 JUNE 2018

“Happiness is not a reward. It’s a requirement.”

… Insight early on Thursday evening on the way to the subway station, at the end of a thought about exactly when I worked out how important a perception of happiness is for success. My conclusion was that I started thinking that way about ten years ago, but that I didn’t truly realise the seriousness of the matter until a few years ago.

Happiness is, in other words, not a luxury, as I believed for many years, but an essential ingredient in the journey to success. A happy person is a productive person – one who wants to reach for things and take chances. The happy person finds the inspiration to act. The happy person has the energy to take on challenges. The happy person is motivated. The happy person believes in himself and what he can accomplish. The happy person believes in a happy future.

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What if you don’t consider yourself happy at the present moment?

It is crucial that you change this perception. Force yourself to smile more (scientifically proven to affect your mind – see Daniel Kahneman, Thinking, Fast and Slow); change things in your immediate environment to remove resistance to a perception of happiness; identify things that affect your senses negatively – what you taste, what you look at, what you feel on your skin, what you smell, what you hear, and change what you can.

A perception that you’re happy is to a large extent something you can create. You can indeed manipulate yourself to feel happier, and there is scientific proof it doesn’t even matter that you know you are trying to manipulate yourself.

Considering how important a perception of happiness is for what you do and how you see your chances of success, even your ability to identify opportunities, the importance of trying harder to feel happy cannot be overstated.

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Last thought: Your happiness must be a tough bastard, not a fragile child. Happiness must be your hard shell, not your delicate heart that can be shaken at any moment.

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Mistakes, tips, lessons, and a mantra

FRIDAY, 6 APRIL 2018

Always a good time to summarise some lessons learned:

Point one: Focus on your strengths.

Point two: Find a market for what you can do, or for what you know, or for what you’re good at. And remember: It’s widely acknowledged that McDonald’s burgers are second-rate, yet they make millions of dollars every year. Why? Because they are good at distribution. Your product or service doesn’t have to be the best ever before you can take it to the market. Do your best, focus on delivering value, master marketing and distribution, and hope for the best.

Point three: Bring your service or product to the attention of people or businesses that are interested and already paying for a similar product or service.

Point four: If you succeed in making money with something, repeat dozens, or hundreds of times, or thousands of times – whichever is applicable.

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A thought has been growing over the past week or so about what I’m doing now versus what I had done since 2006 to make money. I thought that what I did wrong was to look at what other people were doing to make money rather than to focus on my strengths, and then also at the amounts they were (apparently) earning – if the amounts were attractive enough, I wanted to do the same thing; if in my opinion the amounts were too paltry, I wasn’t interested. Also, when I did manage to generate a few dollars, I didn’t repeat what I had done often enough. All of this kept me stuck in a perpetual maelstrom of “It’s not working,” or “It’s not working well enough,” and “What else can I do?”

This reminds me of my mantra these days: Start small; keep it simple; refine and repeat.

MONDAY, 16 APRIL 2018

Is success within my comfort zone?

I believe success – and I’m talking about the usual type here, which means more money – is in the road on which I’m currently traveling. I would have to go deliberately off-road, into the pastures to avoid it.

I’m not comfortable with ignoring something I believe to be true and replacing it with an alternative. It’s too much trouble. So, as I type these words, I am activating the conviction in my brain that I am comfortable with success – that success is indeed within my comfort zone.

It’s simply easier this way.

THURSDAY, 19 APRIL 2018

No idea or project with which you earn money needs to be profound. There doesn’t need to be any trumpets, and nobody needs to go crazy with excitement or anticipation. The product or service should just be good enough to meet someone’s needs, or good enough to make their lives a little easier, or a little more convenient.

And then, simply repeat what worked a few hundred or a few thousand times.

THURSDAY, 31 MAY 2018

Attitude Towards Money X leads to you not buying things you need, and not doing things you need to do. It can also hamper your attempts to make more money.

Attitude Towards Money Y makes it easier to buy what you need, and to do what you need to do. It also makes it easier for you to make more money – you see opportunities many other people don’t see, and you take action without feeling rushed, confident in your expectation of success.

(Thoughts formulated on the way back from a grocery excursion during which I spent NT$482 on oatmeal, yogurt, milk, water, shampoo and bananas. I specifically thought of the razor blades I didn’t buy and my glasses I still have to replace. I also thought how I had purchased my favourite shampoo again for NT$159, which I didn’t buy the last few months because I had deemed it too expensive.)

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A burning desire to develop a good system

MONDAY, 28 MAY 2018

11:27

Two of the books I recently read, The Science of Getting Rich (written by Wallace D. Wattles and published in 1910) and Think and Grow Rich (written by Napoleon Hill and published in 1937), emphasise the idea of a burning, even consuming, desire; something you constantly think of, to which you are totally committed; something that everyone with whom you come into contact knows about you.

Seeing that you create your own reality, to a large extent, according to your views and beliefs, and how you see yourself, this idea makes sense. If you have a burning desire, your subconscious will constantly think about ways to manifest it – even when you sleep. Because you’ll talk to others about it, they will eventually think of you when they come across someone or something that can help you, and inform you about it. Your radar will also be geared towards anything that can help you – like a conversation between two people behind you in a queue at the bank, something somebody says on TV or on the radio, or a comment that someone makes on social media or on a web page.

So it came that I’ve been wondering the last few days what my burning desire is. Would it have to do with writing? To share things with people? To try clarifying things about which I received clarity for other people who may need it? Would it have to do with money? If writing, or what I hope to achieve with my writing, why then all the focus on money? If financial independence, can I justify spending so much time on my writing?

Then I realised last night when we were parking in the basement: My burning desire is, and has been for the last 25 years, a particular lifestyle. To be able to write and publish freely what I write, and to talk about what I write are part of this lifestyle. Financial independence is an absolute necessity to realise and maintain this lifestyle until I cease to exit.

The most immediate step is then to make more money – naturally in such a way that I don’t lose aspects of my ideal lifestyle I’ve already turned into reality.

22:08

According to Napoleon Hill, Edwin C. Barnes had a burning desire to become a business partner of Thomas Edison. After five years of hard work and patience, he got his chance. His consuming desire had finally been realised. What drove him then?

Napoleon Hill also tells of his own son who was born with a speech and hearing impairment. He imbued his son with desire to speak and hear one day like people with no impairment. After a few decades of resilience, hard work, patience, and a little luck, this burning desire was also turned into reality. Surely he was driven to inform other people with similar disability of the technology that made it possible to overcome his initial impairment – but was it a burning desire?

Twenty-five years ago a certain lifestyle was a burning desire for me. It urged me to take advantage of certain opportunities, and to let others pass by. The fact that I have to a large extent established the cornerstones of this lifestyle, and that I’m currently building the walls is due to this longstanding desire. But eventually, burning desire must be replaced with something more sustainable: systems that will enable your original desire that has since been turned into reality to grow, and become stronger.

FRIDAY, 23 NOVEMBER 2018

One more thing about burning desires, and focus

To make a success of any business, you have to focus on getting the project off the ground; you have to anticipate obstacles; you have to be ready with possible solutions when problems arise; you have to think about ways to grow the business.

What we are talking about here is thinking. You cannot just go through the actions for one project one hour a day, and then go through the actions for another project, and then through the actions for another project. What you need to do is go through the actions for one endeavour every day, and in-between the times you take action, think about solutions, steps you can take to grow your business, things you can do to improve your service or product and deliver better value. And then you again take action to implement all of these thoughts.

If you only go through the minimum work every day for five or six different projects, everything will be mediocre at best.

Another thing: Most of this thinking takes place at times when you’re not actively working on your project. Thoughts – ideas, solutions – rise from your subconscious when you’re brushing your teeth, right after you wake up and you’re still staring at the ceiling, when you’re taking a shower or putting on your shoes, or when you’re waiting for the traffic light to go green and you’re just staring into space without thinking about anything specific. If you’re cooking up five or six or four or seven different projects, on which one will your subconscious mind focus when you’re going through the motions, seemingly thinking of nothing?

There are people who say you have to develop an obsession about a goal, or with the successful realisation of a project, or that you need a burning desire for it. I myself try to steer clear of obsessions, but I think the idea here is to be laser focused. Without this type of focus on a single project, you won’t provide enough fuel to the engines to get the proverbial plane off the ground. Once your plane is airborne and has reached cruising altitude, it’s a different matter.

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